There comes a time in our lives when we must put self-first. I know this quote might sound selfish however when you have been through the pain,  the sadness, and other maudlin experiences that I have endured you realize that you must take the time to pause, reflect, and reset. In order to do this one must focus on self.  

As a wife, mother, daughter, niece, auntie, educator, friend, earth citizen along with my many other titles I am bonded to certain responsibilities! Responsibilities that I am naturally expected to show love, support and for most part give a piece of me whenever I am called upon! In order to serve effectively in my roles I cannot do it from a place of brokenness. Hence, the reason for my quote. In order to heal and support others in their healing process I/we must acknowledge when we are broken and take the time needed to heal ourselves so that we can be successful in serving our purpose!